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单身人士见面难的原因

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详解单身人士见面难的诸多原因

要找到与其他单身人士见面的方式正在成为一个实实在在的问题,总的说来与他人见面的机会并非垂手可得。与其他单身者交谈中,他们告诉我说,工作了一整天然后就回家。句号。没人邀请他们参加那些单身者们的美妙聚会。几乎再也没有人举办此类聚会,因为他们第二天还要上班或是有其他事情。我认识的四十多岁的单身者根本不想去酒吧结识他人,而二三十岁的年青人则精力相对旺盛,愿意去这些场所。

回到以前,多数妇女不用出门工作,她们举办各式草坪聚会,生日聚会,卡片聚会,街道聚会,新年狂欢聚会等等,许多时候就是为了让单身朋友和邻居相互见面认识。那时候参与社交活动对每个人来说都容易得多,因为家中的女人们能够很好地规划举办这些聚会,她们可以用几周来规划,有时间烹饪食品,安排坐次,邮寄邀请函,布置场所,以及事后的清理工作等。即使是举行一个小型聚会也要做很多工作。今天我们中有多少人在一周的工作之余还有时间和精力去办这些呢?

在过去的五十年里,我们看到人们在社交技巧和社交实践方面的退步。我们有语音邮件,ATM机,传真,短信等等。人与人之间实际交流越来越少的情形已司空见惯,结果是单身人士相互见面认识很困难。我想人们渴望与他人的实际交流,而当一个人几乎没有与他人的交流时,他很难获得所需的社交技巧。这就是我们以前所说的社交的魅力。不练习社交技巧,交谈中就显得笨拙难堪。要想社交技巧运用娴熟,就要多多练习,尤其是与异性的交往更是如此。

不久前我在百货商店付款时,前面的一个男子转过身,就自己买的东西开了个玩笑。四目相对我俩都笑了。他高高的个子,蓝色的眼睛,笑起来很是可爱。那一刻我们相互吸引。哦,不,我该说什么?我能看出来,他和我一样,想另找些话来说,这样我们就可以相互联系。他踌躇着看着我,这时收银员找给他零钱。不情愿地他转身离去了。后来我想那天可能会发生什么。也许我应该随身携带小本子,这样一旦遇到我心仪的男子,就可以撕下一张写有我电话号码的纸递给他。

我坚信不用多久单身人士就会采取主动控制事态的发展,设计各式论坛和聚会地点,让相互间的见面变得容易。我已注意到婚介服务的兴起和成功。网上约会业务现在是与他人见面的最容易的方法。知道他们怎么说的吗?“爱情自有出路。”

 

译文:Why is It So Hard for Singles to Hook Up?

Detailing reasons why it's so hard for singles to meet.

Finding a way to meet other single people is getting to be a real problem. The opportunity to meet other people in general is more challenging. When I talk with other single people they tell me that they work all day and go home. Period. No one invites them to that great party where they can meet other singles. Fewer people throw such parties any more because they have to work the next day or they have other commitments. The people I know who are over 40 and single have no desire to go to a bar to meet someone. Young people in their twenties and thirties may have no problem with this and more power to them.

Back in the day when most women did not work outside the home, they were the ones who orchestrated lawn parties, birthday parties, card parties, block parties, New Years bashes, etc., many times with the aim of getting single friends and neighbors to meet one another. Socializing was much easier for everyone then because women in the home were better able to plan and execute these parties because they had weeks to plan the events and time to cook the food, arrange seating, mail invitations, decorate and clean up after wards. There is much that goes into throwing even the smallest party. How many of us have the time or energy today after working all week?

In the last fifty years we have seen an erosion of social skills and practices. We have voice mail, ATM machines, faxes, text messages, etc. Fewer and fewer personal exchanges with real people are the norm. This has resulted in the difficulty of single people to meet and get to know one another. I think people are starved for interaction with real people. When a person has little interaction with others they find it hard to develop the social skills they need. That's what we used to call the social graces. Having little practice with social skills results in clumsy and awkward conversation. To become adept at social skills requires practice, especially with the opposite sex.

Not long ago I was at the checkout of a department store when the man ahead of me turned and made a joke about something he had bought. We both laughed and looked into each other's eyes. He was tall with blue eyes and the cutest grin. In that instant there was an attraction. Oh no! What do I say? I could see he was like me, struggling for something else to say, some way to connect. He hesitated, looking at me while the cashier handed him his change. Reluctantly, he turned and was gone. After that day I thought about what might have been. Maybe I should go around with little paper tabs to pull off with my phone number ready to give to every suitable guy I see.

I do believe that very soon single people will take matters into their own hands by designing forums and venues to make it so much easier to meet each other. I am beginning to see Matchmaker services come to play and they are very successful. The internet dating services are now one of the easiest ways to meet people. You know what they say: Love will find a way.

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