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如何同腼腆的男士搭讪

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有点儿腼腆的男人或许和自信的男人一样吸引女人。这是因为他们不轻易透漏自己的相关信息使得他们自身具有一种神秘感。这样,他们做到了自我封闭,所以喜欢他们的女人会觉得很难和他们开始对话。

女人受这一问题困扰的另一个原因是在她们的生活中,大多数时候都是她们被搭讪,而不是主动找别人搭讪。甚至连多次找女人搭讪的男人有时也会觉得难以应付,所以在这一问题上,女人有些落后也不足为奇了。

然而,女人是交际能人。她们胸中自有许多交际技能方面的锦囊妙计。这使得她们在与他人交谈及聆听时表现最佳。

问题并不在于交际的艺术而在与对拒绝的恐惧。这种拒绝是连那些常年对女人说俏皮话的男人们也不得不忍受的。

由于女人的交际技能占优势,要想成功地和腼腆男人攀谈并赢得他的关注,他们所需要做的就是忘记自己的感受。通过把她们有吸引力的想法排除在外并专注于思考可以对腼腆男人好的做法,女人就能成功地获得男人的接纳。

如果你正想要开始了解一个腼腆男人,那么记住他的害羞的根源和你害怕的原因一样,正是因为害怕被拒绝。腼腆男人和你一样想要被喜欢,而不想让自己出丑。

 如果你能鼓起勇气去和腼腆男人攀谈,那么他也会感受到你这样做所付出的努力。

太直接的话,会令他感到害怕。所以,刚开始和他说话时不要表现出你有多喜欢他。因为这样直接的结果很可能是他连看都不看你,只是对你嘀咕着回复一句“谢谢”。

看看你们之间是否有可以谈论的共同的兴趣爱好。他是一个自然热爱者还是收藏连环画的爱好者呢?一旦你谈到他最喜欢的东西时,他就会对你更感兴趣。

记住腼腆男人通常性格内向。他们可能不太喜欢过于专横的关注,更喜欢一对一的友谊关系,喜欢和性格温和又是好的聆听者的人在一起。

用温柔的方法,那么你也会让他越来越想了解你。

译文:How to Chat Up a Man Who is Shy

Men who are a little shy can be as attractive to women as those whoare confident are. This is because they usually have an air of mysteryabout them as they don't easily reveal much information aboutthemselves. Because they can be closed off in this way women who likethem may find it hard to initiate a conversation with them.

Anotherreason why women may have trouble in this area is that they have spentmost of their lives being chatted up, rather than the other way around.Even men can feel awkward chatting up women after years of practice, soit is no wonder that women may lag behind.

Women, however, aremistresses of communication. They have plenty of communication skillsup their sleeves that generally make them the best at speaking andlistening accurately to others.

The problem lays not with the artof communication but in the fear of rejection, which is what men whohave been spilling one liners to women for eons of time have had to putup with also.

As women have communication skills in their favorwhat they need to do in order to speak effectively to a shy man, and togain his attention, is to forget what their feelings are. By leavingtheir feelings of attraction out of the arena and by concentrating onthinking kind thoughts to a shy man they can successfully get throughto him.

If it is you who are wanting to get to know a shy manthen remember that his shyness stems from the very thing that you areafraid of too. Rejection. The shy man wants to be liked and to not makea fool of himself, just like you do!

If you can pluck up thecourage to speak to a shy man then he will have empathy about how mucheffort it may have taken you to do so.

Being too full on though,will be too scary for him! Therefore don't blurt out how much you fancyhim as soon as you speak to him as he is likely to mutter, ''thanks'',as he heads for the hills without you.

Instead observe whetheryou may have some interests in common to speak about, whether they be alove of nature or a fascination with old comic books. Once you gettalking about his favorite subject then he will become moreenthusiastic about getting to know you.

Remember that shy men areusually introverts. They may not like too much overbearing attentionand prefer to be in one on one relationships and friendships withpeople who are gentle and who are good listeners.

By taking the gentle approach you are more likely to get him to want to know you too.

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